Share Obituary. What if I somehow found all the rationalists or effective altruists who are unlikely to cause sexual violence, and took them all for myself? They need to periodically review a random sample of each others crime reports and publish the results. I am not the most optimistic of people, but my life has gone worse than I thought it would many times over. You cant take in 1000 reports, review three, and call it a sample. I need these three things to be fully intact. We need independent review organizations to take crime reports and create statistics to keep the police accountable. Send a note, share a story or upload a photo. Quite possibly both. Screening and kino are boundary violations at best and can easily qualify as sexual harassment or even sexual violence. The following piece is a suicide note that deals heavily with sexual violence. Police stations all need to be required to display a prominent sign inviting you to share your crime report with the independent review organizations. Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday, April 26th at 11am. I call them super survivors. Or worse, they spitball me to death telling me a lot of quick ideas, when quick ideas are unlikely to succeed. Thats several times what most women experience and it doesnt even include unconfirmed perps. It feels like this: The man is my soldier and my general. Some of the reports will be false accusations. I created an infographic with 25 examples of the stonewalling Ive been encountering this whole time. Ill donate X in the future if you take sexual violence seriously as a community? That just seems like an attempt to purchase a belief, a bribe. Offenders dont target strangers much. She left behind several pieces of writing, including her suicide note, which she wanted to be shared and which is included in its entirety below. Dont let them have so much halo effect! Trading it for food or money would probably traumatize me. Im spent. If most of the people in my social network stopped stonewalling about sexual violence and started doing work to reduce risk, my life would be very different. If you weaken it, you violate it. Ford is survived by her daughters, Deborah DuRoss Guibord and Kimberly DuRoss, her granddaughters, Chelsea Guibord Cox andTara DuRoss, grandson David Guibord, and a great-granddaughter, Quinn DuRoss Cox, and well as a niece, two nephews, a grand-niece and three grand-nephews. Sign up for service and obituary updates. Its just part of who I am. Want some examples? It ensures the independent review organizations statistics are actually used. If a bunch of people all try to be rational, they will converge upon the same ideas and reach the same conclusions. I havent told anyone any details since its an information hazard. You can look up The second rape to get a better understanding of the ridiculous things that happen. Theyre too creative. I was actually trying to talk about rationality and effective altruism for years before I found this place, and was referred into it because of that! When you need help, you dont have time to go through an onslaught of rigor and spitball ideas. It would have been much, much higher if I hadnt stopped attending events, especially if I had moved to The Bay. It works pretty well, actually. Because things like rape myths do increase risk, and because they will just spread into my group whatever I do, it makes more sense to tackle the social norms in the entire rationality diaspora and EA network. Its too small. We have something like a very wide ballpark around a 1% chance of dying per year. Together they had 3 children. Without a large enough sample size, the results from these organizations will vary wildly. She was predeceased by : her parents, Lula Ingle (Fee) and Walter Ingle; her former husband Larry Cain; her children, Michael Cain (Farrah) of Anderson and Michelle "Shelly" Giles (Doug) of Martinsville; and her sisters, Bonnie Bruce and Violet Turbeville. OBITUARY Kathy Louise Ford May 2, 1953 - March 10, 2021 IN THE CARE OF Cook-Walden/Capital Parks Funeral Home & Cemetery Kathy Louise Ford was born on May 2, 1953 in Austin, Texas to the late Kathleen Shelby and Charles Amos. Wherever I go to make friends, for work, or for volunteering is where I am going to be targeted. If you are suicidal or a sexual violence survivor, I would urge you to exercise extreme caution, as this essay was written by someone at the nadir of a depression induced by her sexual trauma. Everything in my personality is connected. This part is absolutely necessary for effectiveness. Would I even have personhood then? Im not sure if other bisexuals are like this, but my testosterone level is on the high side of the womens range. Kathy Ford's Net Worth Kathy Ford had an estimated net worth of $3. Copyright 2023 Echovita Inc. All rights reserved. ? my instincts scream. I did this for months as a job. People who are influenced by their own motivated reasoning do not realize they are confusing themselves. Not all of those were in LW/EA. She is survived by : her brother Coy Fee (Mary) of Anderson; her step-daughters, Missy Richards and Kelly Ford (Kentucky); and her grandchildren, Dylan Cain, Sara Giles, Matthew Giles, Roger Richards, Bridgette, Tyler and Braxton. What we need is not a one-time evaluation. Remember it. This makes the city look bad. Because his sex offense was partly motivated by his sapiosexual attraction, my experience with him shut down a piece of my self-expression. I thought it was all going to be okay. Negotiate or specify a costly signal that makes sense. Attractiveness does appear to play a role. Comfort the family with flowers or a sympathy gift. For me, orgasm releases a bunch of chemicals that result in very strong emotional bonding whether I want it to or not. Then some very bad things happened to me in the area of abuse and my life ended up destroyed. This advocate would be invaluable for people who want to attend a reporting event to go to the police. DIANA Kathy Ann Ford, 62 of Diana, passed away August 27, 2021 in the ICU at Good Shepard Medical Center from COVID. And here I am, fully capable of forming an extremely strong and incredibly enthusiastic alliance with a protector. Most people have an incredibly strong need for self-expression. My survival instincts told me I needed to be in their territory. This could probably even motivate me to have casual sex, which I would normally have no interest in because I am coy (a slow and selective sexual orientation, a Dawkins term). Being outside this network felt like being dead inside my own skin. By Gavin Edwards. You will all be safer if you all cooperate by making reports! I dont even feel like the same person anymore. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. I will try to explain why the mental health industry is ineffective in my case. Causing that kind of evaporative cooling in a charity network doesnt look like a good way to save the world to me. Being abused and enslaved are depressing, and will only make a suicidal person feel worse. The charmers polish constantly. It is a strange kind of torture to be chemically uplifted while the rest of my humanity is ignored. Is it because young-looking people are more attractive? Some women like being dominated in a kinky sense, but Id bet safety pragma is more common and likely to be lot more powerful. I really needed help with that part but people didnt believe in the problem enough to invest the time into negotiating how I can prove this is a real problem. I guess that wasnt safe either. Drugs dont change a situation. I told him I dont want you to kiss me. I had already refused him previously, and explained that I had a boyfriend and wasnt available. You might not want to believe what Im about to explain. I cant help that it turns me on when people defend me against others. Maybe the talkative ones are driven out. To survive and avoid injury, trauma, rape and other abuses, it makes sense for a woman to seek someone who will defend her. Kathy Ann Ford Obituary With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Kathy Ann Ford of Diana, Texas, born in Midland, Texas, who passed away on August 27, 2021 at the age of 62. The independent review organization needs to accept all crime reports, period. Independent review organizations need to accept both police reports that were made successfully and also accepts all crime reports that people didnt or couldnt file with the police. The son of Kathy Ford and Ennio Stirpe, Michael dropped his father's surname and took on the Ford name in 2014 before he commenced his campaign for city councillor. She accepted Christ early in her life. Kathy was born on November 4, 1958 in Midland, Texas to Dwain and Wanda. She is preceded in death by her. Featured Obituary. I think there are women whose lives are hells of sexual violence and nobody believes them. She combines reports, she looks for evidence. I really, really wanted to be a writer. Putting food into a new baby is more likely to spread your genes than putting it into an elderly disabled person. The movies get this subtly and horribly wrong. You wont be able to trust it with too small of a sample. Another way I could really harm effective altruism is if I continue sliding downward like this. Fantasies about someone ruthlessly crushing a threat gets the strongest response in my case. Ill add two more methods of showing you this as well. I was allowing myself to make dumb mistakes so as not to look particularly smart. If this person is stalking me, their plausible deniability is on fleek! Im not even sure I can work. Hanging out with the police is too friendly. 2023 SCI SHARED RESOURCES, LLC. I thought about making a new network, but it would probably end up with the same gender ratio which multiplies my already elevated sexual violence risk. Okay. While in Austin, Kathy met and married Bradley Ford. Sign up for service and obituary updates. For one example: Adam Saffron really valued my mind. Instead, they are targeted disproportionately for theft. So, I cant be myself in these movements because the risk is too high. Its actually pretty complicated because you have to cover so many different types of situations multiplied by the different kinds of offenders. I named this safety pragma. Adam Saffron kissed me on the neck during my internship, while living and working at Leverage Research. How much more infuriating could the situation be??? If people dont use the statistics, accountability wont work. She was also an expert photographer who developed her own film in a dark room in her home, as well as a gifted violinist. Please watch out. Police dont really want to take your crime report and seriously evaluate it either. August 27, 2021 What I need is to be alive and flourishing in my own skin, not just going through the motions, trapped in my body, with my mind on mute for the rest of my life. It will look like crime is low. Its now four months later, and Im thoroughly burnt out on being stonewalled. There needs to be an advocate that everyone feels comfortable with, and who is very knowledgeable about how sexual violence actually works someone who will keep it a secret and talk to you while you try to figure out what to do. I saw red flags more often than I experienced abuse. My dignity is there for a reason. This ensures that police are never writing their own report card by making sure people find out about the independent review organization. Find the obituary of Thelma "Kathy" Ford (1948 - 2023) from Anderson, IN. She was 80. I fantasized about throwing myself at them, and even obeying them, because they protected me in the fantasy. I have been thinking like a rationalist and effective altruist for 20 years. It may take up to 1 hour for your comment to appear on the website. She attended Sam Houston University for one year and then moved to Austin, where she was employed by Austin Surplus Lines. Charm is something manipulative people often use that I read about in books about sociopaths, too. She was loved and cherished by many people including : her parents, Dwain Rosser and Wanda Rosser; her brother-in-law Glenn Ford; her husband Claude Ford; her son Keelan Ford; her daughter-in-law Brittnee; her daughter Kaylee Whyte; her son-in-law Dakota; her son Chad Ford; her daughter-in-law Caroline; her siblings, Gail Saxon and Butch Rosser; her sister-in-law Gloria; her sister Rae Mulkey; her brother-in-law Don; her sister Pam Nix; her brother-in-law Mike; her brother Erik Hall; and her grandchildren, KJ Ford, Lyrick Whyte, Tristan Dixon, Elise Ford and Everett Ford. Thats why I burned out, and that alone would have killed me eventually. I wouldnt want to be told what to do all day, or who to be, or what to do with my life. If you are reading this and feel hopeless too, please contact me or a person you trust. For your own sake, please start acknowledging abuse and allying with all the survivors by doing something which reduces risk. Nobody wanted to believe it. You cant just pay them. I look young enough that most people mistake me for being in the high risk age range. Annie Kotowicz would probably make a brilliant suffering reductionist. Let others know about your loved one's death. I think there need to be regular reporting events where everyone is invited to report to police as part of a group or to support others. I hope at least some of you will warn the prettiest women that they should leave, especially if the sex offenders start targeting them. With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Kathy Ann Ford of Diana, Texas, born in Midland, Texas, who passed away on August 27, 2021 at the age of 62. Safety pragma is about ten times stronger than any other form of attraction I have ever experienced. I know women can smell mens testosterone, and that women respond to it. Youd be socially isolated. She was born in West Columbia to the late Ted E. Bachman and Joyce Ann Wise Bachman. Send a note, share a story or upload a photo. Kathy was born December 24, 1961 in Galveston County, Texas. Its been a slow, steady decline. Am I just buttering these people up for a job or a favor or something? Sometimes, people would commit sex offenses shortly after they complimented me for these things. This article points out an extreme case, but ignoring victims of serious crimes seems pretty common, and people have reported other aspects of this while documenting a phenomenon named the second rape. I didnt manage to bust every one of them, as thats actually quite hard to do given that they dont tend to leave evidence and a lot of survivors dont report. I didnt keep this relationship between protection and arousal a complete secret of course, but I couldnt advertise it widely enough to make it likely to succeed, especially given that I am selective, and that some of my enemies are a challenge. 57 million. They sometimes target other women of course, but they really like to target pretty-faced women, just like anyone else. Other people had the same experience with them. If the police get enough reports about the same person, they can combine them. The differences between my way and the LW/EA way are relatively small. She is survived by her husband, Willie Eugene Ford; brother, Deron Bachman (Pam); sons, Jeramie Cason and Ted Michael Cason (Jessica); grandchildren, Logan, Ariel, Cody, Chance, Dyllan and Ravyn; nieces, Heather and Ashton and nephew, Joshua. Eric Bruylant is one of the most brilliant people-rationalists I know, and thats really valuable, even if he does have a mental disorder. Search by Name. 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